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It’s not likely you sit around thinking about how it is you learned all you did about how to be a successful adult but if you did, you may have similar thoughts like I recently had. We were heading out to dinner and had ordered a pizza for our 14 year-old son which hadn’t arrived when we needed to leave. We were explaining what he needed to do and how much cash he should ask for in change when the doorbell rang. My instinct was to answer the door and pay for the pizza but my husband gave him the $20, told him to answer the door and watched how he did. I thought...well, that was easy and he is all set for the next time!
Of course, there are hundreds of examples that I can think of that we have fostered independence in our children but there are also many examples that I can think about when it was just easier for us to do it, as busy parents often do. It really isn’t about paying for pizza delivery but each instance a child has to be independent, even at an early age, begins to develop self-confidence in their own abilities. This confidence builds self-reliance, which builds more confidence to be independent.
Children crave independence, even at an early age….I can’t tell you how many times I heard my kids say “I do it” when they were little. But because we are busy, sometimes we just want it done without having to teach or explain, or we want it done the way we want it done. I would call these missed opportunities. Embrace each chance you have to let them try themselves. Have them pick a meal each week to make (it might be cereal for dinner but you didn’t make it). Pay them an allowance but have them have to pay their cell phone bill to you out of it each month. Have them order a meal in a restaurant. Going to the movies? Have them research the theater and time of the movie they want to see. And when they ask to do it themselves, seriously consider it. Building confidence is key to independence!
School communities are a microcosm of the larger macro community, the society in which we all live. Humankind has long recognized that we must establish parameters that enable us to live together harmoniously (laws, rules, & regulations). Schools must do the same. In a democratic society these parameters of accepted behavior define the essence of good citizenship. In essence, if you abide by and promote these expectations, these laws, you are considered a person of integrity, a person likely to contribute to the common good. Again, this expectation and this definition of good citizenship applies to school communities, as well. This is a major focus of teaching and learning at LPS.
Highly effective schools understand that any departure in behavior by any member of the school community must be addressed as an opportunity to redress that behavior by using it as a teaching moment. This approach is exactly what we expect our teachers to do with respect to teaching and learning n the classroom, that is, seize the focus of study in each class as an opportunity to further student understanding and appreciation of the subject of that lesson. This approach is embedded in highly effective instruction in the cognitive domain. Quite simply, it is what great teachers do!
Unfortunately, far too many schools have not transferred this approach to the affective domain, the social emotional development of the child, particularly with respect to student conduct. Again, simply stated, action that violates the way we do things here! The recidivism of student misbehavior in such an environment is extremely high.
It is only when we treat these behaviors as teaching moments, as opportunities to advance the understanding and appreciation of each child with respect to the need for these community norms, that we truly make a constructive contribution to the child’s life.
This approach requires that all members of the school staff embrace and advance this protocol, understanding that they must seize these opportunities as teaching moments, as real opportunities to make a constructive difference in the life of the child.
As it does in the cognitive realm, in the affective realm some students will take a longer and more sustained effort by themselves and by staff to truly understand and to manifest the accepted norms of being a good school citizen.
At the heart of all successful schools is a healthy, vibrant culture that embraces this approach to advance the personal integrity of each member of the community, staff, as well as students. The foundation for this work is character education. The core principles are embedded in a code of conduct that delineates the core values of the school. These five core values include respect, honesty, caring, compassion, and responsibility. These values are advanced through common reads, by integration throughout the educational program, and by modeling. At LPS we are dedicated to this work, to applying the same intense focus to the affective needs of our students that we bring to their cognitive needs.
It is the time of year where we are all, in one way or another, thinking about and expressing what we are thankful for. It seems like everywhere you turn (even my Thanksgiving table) we are asking this question or maybe we received an email or letter letting us know what an organization is thankful for at this time of year. Most popular answers seem to be related to health, family, friends, food, etc.
For our students it may be hard to be put on the spot with such a big and open-ended question. There are SO MANY things that someone could be thankful for and it can be overwhelming to narrow it down to just one. At Learning Prep we try to teach our students the skills to be prepared for these situations by scaffolding and scripting typical answers so that students don’t have that nervous, uncomfortable feeling in front of others. We work hard to teach students the social fake of just picking one thing, even if there are many, many things they are thankful for because all the guests at your dining room table will be thankful for that. While this is an excellent skill to teach and learn, sometimes it is also nice to hear students’ genuine answers that may come from a different than the norm perspective. One particularly good one that caused me pause was: “I’m thankful that the sun came out today, because it isn’t always going to be here, ya know.”
I’m thankful that this student made me stop and really think about this and the gift that I take for granted. Sometimes our students’ unique perspectives are a gift to us all.
I don’t know about you, but I have conflicting emotions when it comes to the Holiday season. They say it’s the most wonderful time of the year, but it can also be the most stressful, especially for children with special needs. Planning ahead is a great way to try and mitigate some of the stressors and focus on the good stuff! Here are 8 Holiday tips that may help make this time of year less stressful and more enjoyable:
1. Create clear/reasonable expectations
Make a list, describe or even role-play expectations for an event or gathering. Keep in mind what is reasonable in terms of their abilities.
2. Develop a schedule
Using pictures or a list with times, create a schedule with your child so they can be prepared.
3. Give your child a job
Idle time can be stressful. Giving your child a job to do during an event, like greeting the guests or putting their coats in a specific place, may help them feel important and is also an opportunity to practice social skills.
4. Present opportunities for quiet time
Build into your schedule some quiet time or suggest a quiet break if your child seems overwhelmed.
5. Bring alternate activities
Having some familiar activities in an unfamiliar setting can help an overwhelmed child feel more comfortable.
6. Reduce your stress
Children react to your stress levels, therefore, be kind to yourself and schedule a break for you too!
7. Be flexible
Most of the time, things don’t go the way we plan, but it’s how we respond during those times that makes a difference. Venting your frustrations can come later when the kids are asleep!
Pause for a moment or two, take a deep breath, look around and notice the positives.
If you are a sports fan, living in New England in recent years has been full of titles. Since 2000, the Patriots have won six Super Bowls, the Sox have won 3 World Series titles, the Bruins have one Stanley Cup, and even the Celtics had one NBA Championship win. With so many wins we think our teams are unstoppable and become “those” fans who think that winning is just what we do. The reality is that amongst those wins, there were also a lot of losses.
Losses occur. When the Patriots lose, they analyze what happened, take responsibility for the loss, and figure out how to win the next time by not making the same mistakes. That’s what makes them better. Funny how sports can be a metaphor for life! We all have experienced our own “losses” or mistakes and if we have a healthy sense of self, we know that our mistakes don’t define us. They are opportunities for learning and developing the skills necessary to cope with challenges when they arrive. All too often we find that our society tries to prevent our children from making mistakes or feeling uncomfortable. While no one wants to see their child upset, pushing all obstacles out of the way is a detriment to the healthy development of skills to cope when challenges occur. At LPS, when our students experience mistakes and failures within our supportive environment, we work with them to acknowledge issues, and gain skills to deal with unintended consequences. It may be difficult at times but we are committed to the affective development of our students as well as the academic. Our students may not be winning a Super Bowl but they can win at conquering the challenges that life throws at them!
September is an odd month – it is filled with so many mixed emotions; excitement, nervousness, angst, wonder… It shouldn’t surprise us, as it follows August every year AND marketing has done a good job of preparing us by putting back to school supplies in stores starting in July but for some reason it always does. I always look forward to the change of season and the start of a new school year will new students, eager staff, and 180 days to make a difference. The excitement in the students’ eyes on the first days of school is contagious. One question I often ask students at the beginning of the school year, because I find it so telling, is “Did the summer go by fast or slow?’ More often students say “slow.” So many of our students look forward to the routines and structure of school, me too. It feels good to get back into a familiar, predictable routine. Maybe that is why I like October so much, things are running smoothly after the dust of September settles.
The beginning of the year has been filled with helping us all get back into the “swing of school” with assemblies to review our Citizenship focus this year (Honesty), tours of the school to ease the “where am I going?” feeling, a rotation to meet all the elementary and middle school staff so students are familiar with staff they may not have on their schedule, binder set up to help with executive functioning, discussions regarding LPS and classroom expectations to familiarize students with new student support protocols, and in class assessments to ensure proper homogeneous groupings. Side note: if your student comes home with a schedule change during this time, it is means that we are learning about your student’s strengths and challenges and we are fine tuning our groups to ensure that each student is appropriately challenged.
Things that you can do at home to get back into the school routine is to check your student’s binder every night including their homework and take home folder and their goal sheet and RAPP grades for middle school students. All of these things are helpful communication tools to see how your student’s day was and what they are learning. Help your student have a functional place to do homework BUT not actually help your student do the homework. It is helpful for us to see what your student can do independently. If you have questions about homework or anything in the binder feel free to reach out to your student’s counselor or teacher with questions.
We look forward to a wonderful school year and have prepared our classrooms and lesson plans with great care. Please do not hesitate to call or email me with any questions at email@example.com or 617-965-0764 x407.
Parents often ask, “What can we do at home to help our child?”. As you know, children with learning challenges frequently require additional support to understand the world, accomplish tasks or even communicate. I would like to share with you an article that I found helpful when problem solving this topic- "Helping Young Children with Learning Disabilities at Home" written by the Learning Disabilities Association of America. While the title speaks to young children, I think you’ll notice that most aspects of the article apply to all children, in some way.
I hope that you and your family have had many occasions to enjoy the summer. The weather in July and August has been spectacular, affording many opportunities to take advantage of everything that living in New England has to offer.
Another school year is about to begin and the first student day for all LPS students is Monday, August 26, 2019. We are looking forward to greeting our returning students and welcoming students new to the school.
This week we are engaged in orientations with new staff and returning staff, as we prepare to greet the students. There is a palpable enthusiasm in the air as we prepare for a meaningful year of teaching and learning at LPS. Each year there are some staff members not returning while new staff members join our community and this year is no different? Please join us in welcoming new staff to our community of learners.
We enjoyed a very successful summer school, providing the students with an opportunity to stay abreast of their skills and content understandings, as well as enjoying many fun activities with their peers and staff members.
We have been engaged in facility improvements and general maintenance including the completion of our new Health & Wellness Center, funded by the generosity of friends of the school; lowering the ceilings on the first floor of the high school building to improve aesthetics and acoustics; refinishing all of the woodwork in the high school, as we did in EMS last year; removing the last of the old carpeting; and, of course, concentrating on the normal summer cleaning and refurbishing of the facilities.
We are entering the second year of our Curriculum Review & Development program and will complete the review of our math and ELA curriculum by May, 2020. This important work codifies the articulation and sequencing of the essential skills and core content knowledge across the school curriculum, grades 2-12. In 2020-21 we will focus on the review and development of science and social studies.
This is a special year for Learning Prep School as we celebrate our 50th anniversary. Founded in 1970, the school has occupied the present site for approximately 48 years after originally being located in Boston. You will hear more about the celebratory activities as the year progresses.
Most importantly, we are most appreciative that you have provided us with the privilege of working with your child each day. Relational trust is the cornerstone of a healthy, respectful, and vibrant school/parent partnership. We invite you to be active participants in making your child’s experience at LPS meaningful and joyful.
Ted Sharp, Head of School
Well, the school year is almost over, and this means so has my first year at Learning Prep School. After a career in independent education that has spanned over two decades, I have never felt so enthusiastic about a school, and it’s mission as I am about Learning Prep School. I have met so many kind students, staff, parents, and community members that have made my first year at LPS memorable! I enjoyed watching many proud parents walk into the LPS Cafeteria with their child for Senior Dinner last week! The Class of 2019 is now ready for the next chapter of their lives as LPS Alumni!
The LPS Panther came back to life and is now featured on most items in our online LPS School Store. It is so exciting to see students and staff walking through campus while wearing their LPS Panther gear taking pride in their school and mascot. To use the online store, click here.
After starting our LPS Social Media Program this past fall, our Instagram account called lpspanthers now has 415 followers! And our Facebook page called Learning Prep School has 180 followers, which helps us communicate with LPS families, Alumni, and potential students and their families. To understand the magic of Learning Prep School, you have to see it to believe it! Through social media, more and more people are now able to see it and believe it!
The LPS Alumni Association and the LPS Alumni Executive Council was formed this year and alumni are attending events in record numbers. It is so great to see former students reconnecting with their friends and community, and I have loved hearing many of their stories of days gone by. Last week a wonderful group of alumni gathered on campus for a meatball dinner and bingo night. There were alumni from the Class of 2018 all the way to the Class of 2002 and many others representing classes in between.
We look forward to seeing more LPS Alumni on Wednesday, July 10th @ 5:00 pm for our annual LPS Alumni BBQ.
Thank you to all our families and friends who have contributed to the LPS Family & Friends Fund this year! Our Annual Goal is $250,000, and we have raised $228,000 thus far, passing the 92% mark about a week ago. We only have $22,500 to raise by Sunday, June 30th. If you have not already done so this year, please consider a gift to support LPS, the mission and how we deliver it! Thank you very much for your consideration!
As the school year comes to a close, it is a time for reflection on the past school year and where we are headed for in the future. On May 31st, we will celebrate our senior class and their accomplishments both academic and personal. The evening, and weeks leading up to it, are filled with mixed emotions. Many students, families, and staff are thrilled to see our seniors take the next steps towards realizing their dreams beyond HS but there is also a sense of impending loss. Our staff spend approximately seven hours a day for one-hundred eighty days at school cultivating relationships with students, some of whom have been with us for many years. It is hard not to think of our community as an extended family which makes saying goodbye so hard.
While we recognize the sadness, we try to focus on the excitement and pride that moving on from LPS can bring. Some of the changes that we have seen in our students over the years can’t be measured by an IEP. They are getting together with a friend for the first time, sharing laughter when there used to be only tears, finding a voice, discovering a talent, accepting help, showing compassion, and being in a play. These are the elements of growth that we remember when we think of students. Our seniors will be off having new experiences and adventures which give rise to new opportunities for growth. They have gained confidence and skills that they can take with them and will hopefully look back on their time at LPS with fondness. Success has different meanings from different perspectives but happiness should always be part of that equation. For those moving on from LPS, we will certainly miss you, but we hope you see this ending as a new beginning.
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